In relationships, especially when you're trying to establish one with the opposite sex, it's not uncommon to feel disrespected or mistreated at times.

Find yourself caught in a repeated cycle where every woman you talk to seems to disregard or disrespect you. It may be time to reflect on certain behaviours that could be contributing to this dynamic. Here are some attitudes that might invite disrespect from the opposite sex;

1. Treating Them Like They Are Gods

It’s great to be a gentleman and show respect to every woman you meet. However, worshipping her, placing her on a pedestal, or making her the centre of your world can backfire.

If you continuously treat her as superior or perfect, she may start to believe that she’s above you. Over time, this imbalance can lead to her losing respect for you, as people tend to appreciate what they perceive as valuable and equal.

While it’s important to be kind and have some manners, make sure you maintain your dignity and boundaries. Treat her as an equal, not someone who should be idolized. This way, the relationship is built on mutual respect.

2. You are Indecisive

A lack of decisiveness can make you seem unsure of yourself, which might come across as weak or unreliable. Women (and people in general) are attracted to those who are confident and know what they want.

If you're constantly unsure about what you want, following others’ leads without ever taking charge or making decisions, you might be seen as passive or uncertain. This can lead to a loss of respect. Work on developing clarity about your wants, needs, and boundaries. Practice taking initiative, whether it’s planning a date or making a decision about your future. 

Work on developing clarity about your wants, needs, and boundaries. Practice taking initiative, whether it’s planning a date or making a decision about your future. 

3. Being a Pushover

If you’re someone who never stands up for yourself and allows her to get away with disrespectful behaviour, she may start to take advantage of that. Being too passive or afraid of confrontation sends the message that you can be walked all over, and people tend to lose respect for those who don’t respect themselves.

Learn to assert yourself calmly but firmly. This doesn’t mean being rude or aggressive, but knowing when to say “no” or push back when your boundaries are crossed.

4. Seeming Desperate

If you act like you're desperate to be with her, this could be seen as a sign of insecurity or neediness. Desperation suggests that you value her attention more than you value your self-worth, which may push her away and lead to disrespect. Build your self-esteem and confidence outside of the relationship.

Respect in any relationship is a two-way street. If you find yourself constantly being disrespected by the women you interact with, it’s important to first reflect on how you’re treating yourself. By working on the traits mentioned you can create healthier, more respectful interactions with women and others in your life.