He was never the first to initiate any kind of intimacy it was stressful having to push him for it all the time, and then when he finally gave me some, he never climaxed, it could take hours before he finally did. It was exhausting, so we sat down and had a talk, he said something was missing and maybe trying it with other people would help him discover what was wrong with us, so to help him find whatever was missing, I allowed him to bring new people into our relationship.

 I had to agree because I didn't want to lose him. I met the partners he was 'experimenting' with, but what was strange was that they consisted of both sexes, and it was a bit confusing. When I asked about it, he said they all did it together with the females in their group.

It didn't make sense, but once again, I just went with it. I watched as he brought groups of men and women home to have fun, and I couldn't complain because I allowed it to happen in the first place - Then I found him on dating apps as if having multiple partners was not enough - I confronted him again, and he said it was just for the fun of it.

Again, I didn't complain but later realized that he had found a lover online; they were always speaking, and he was spending less time with me and more time with this person. I got curious and started snooping through his phone, but I found him chatting with a man. That messed with my head, so I demanded an explanation, and all he said was that he was just in it for the money - Okay?

Then things got messy; He suddenly left the country, which I found very unsettling because he was never keen on going abroad he never spoke about leaving, so what happened? He said to me when he got there,

"Adwoa, I got married to my lover, but it's only for a period, soon, I will get a divorce and come back to marry you and bring you here with me." I relaxed because I thought he loved me like I loved him.

It was not until I stumbled upon certain documents on his old laptop that I realized how blind I had been. This lover he was talking about was the man I found him chatting with. My boyfriend had married and was living with another man; I was broken, and I cried like a baby.

When I picked myself up, I called him, but all he said was,

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"Adwoa, don't be mad at me, it was just a marriage of convenience, you are the one I love. When I get my green card, I will divorce him and come for you."

 I know it's a lie, he plays for the other team, I was just blindly in love to accept the truth. Did I leave him? No, we are still together, he takes care of my heart and sends me gifts. I love this guy so much that it doesn't matter if my rival is another man, I will just wait for the divorce so he can marry me.