When it comes to relationships defining where you stand is very important. You might feel like you are his girlfriend, but unless certain actions and commitments are in place, you could still be in a gray area. Until he does these 4 things you are not his girlfriend, you are just a single person assuming the role of a girlfriend.

1. He Officially Asks You
Words matter. A man who values clarity and respects your feelings will make it clear. Whether it’s a sweet conversation or a grand romantic gesture, he won’t leave you guessing. Without this step, it’s easy to fall into the limbo of undefined relationships.

2. He Introduces You as His Girlfriend
How he presents you to others speaks volumes. If he calls you his girlfriend to his friends, family, or colleagues, it shows he’s proud of you and wants the world to know you’re together. If introductions feel vague or noncommittal, it might be time for a conversation.

3. He Shows You That You’re His Girlfriend
Actions speak louder than words. From making time for you to prioritizing your needs and feelings, his behavior should consistently affirm your relationship. You’ll feel secure when his actions align with his words.

4. He Acts Like Someone Who’s Taken
Being in a relationship means exclusivity and loyalty. If he’s respecting boundaries, avoiding flirtatious interactions with others, and focusing his energy on you, it’s a strong sign of commitment.

Defining your role in a relationship isn’t about pressuring someone; it’s about knowing your worth and ensuring your needs are met. If he officially asks, introduces, shows, and acts like you’re his partner, there’s no doubt where you stand. And remember, the right person will make your place in their life undeniably clear.